Less stuff, more living: A review of Clutterfree with Kids (+ giveaway!)

21 February 2014

Joshua Becker, the founder and editor of the popular Becoming Minimalist website, sent me a copy of his new book, Clutterfree with Kids for a review and giveaway. Here’s the review. At the end you’ll see how to enter to win an autographed copy of the book.

I’ve long extolled the virtues of living with less. I tell my clients and various audiences that less is more. Owning less stuff makes life easier. I sincerely believe that.

Reading Clutterfree with Kids, though, has given me even more perspective on it. I define clutter has having more items than you can comfortably store. Until now, I’ve always thought about excess in terms of whether or not stuff can be stored.

But Joshua Becker has me thinking about minimalism. That is, living with a fundamental philosophy of not just avoiding having too much, but rather embracing having as little as possible. That’s actually a pretty big shift. And it was an wow moment for me.

While this is a book focused on children’s possessions, the first third of it is about the concept of minimalism. And even if you (like me) don’t have kids, you might find it really interesting and, possibly, mind blowing.

Before he even gets into talking about kids’ stuff, Becker outlines his four steps for living in a clutterfree home.

  • Believe it is possible
  • Remove the excess
  • Implement habits to manage your clutter
  • Slow the accumulation of possessions

If you have kids, and you find the notion of teaching your kids the value of living with less intriguing, this book will give you many reasons to do it and will give you a way to go about it. The discussion isn’t limited to toys. It also includes chapters on clothing, artwork, sentimental items, collections, tv and video games, photos, gifts, packing, schedules, and preparing for baby.

I was especially delighted to read the chapter, “Clutterfree with a reluctant partner.” Minimalism is a huge lifestyle changed for many. What if your partner is not on board? Becker is full of sound advice, like “Refuse to let stuff separate you.” And “Realize you can’t change someone else. You can only change yourself (and your attitude).” He recommends leading by example, purging your own items first then looking for common items you can together agree to part with. And he recommends patience. Sounds spot on to me.

This book is well written, with lots of gentle humor. And it has what I believe is a profound message. If you’re at all enticed by the subject, I encourage you to read it.

The giveaway

Here’s how you can get a free copy of Clutterfree with Kids, autographed by the author. Just leave a comment below and/or tweet about the giveaway and/or post on your Facebook timeline or page about the giveaway. You’ll get extra entries for doing tweets and Facebook posts in addition to the comment. (Be sure and put my twitter handle, @janinea, in the tweet or, when you’re posting on Facebook, tag my Facebook page Peace of Mind Organizing so I’ll count your extra entries.)

Last day to enter is Friday, February 28. I’ll select the winner at random and announce the winner on my blog on Monday, March 3. (And I’ll contact you directly if you’re the lucky person.)

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Comments

With 3 kids this new book is definitely on my must – read list! Thanks @janinea http://www.facebook.com/peaceofmindorganizing

Matt Alic February 21, 2014 10:18 AM

My daughter and I need this book pretty bad. My wife may kick us out if we don’t learn to declutter soon! (We are both sentimentalists!)

Thadeus February 21, 2014 10:40 AM

I have a 1200 sw ft house for 2 adults and 3 yr old and a dog. I keep telling my husband we need to be more minimalistic. I need this book

Janet February 21, 2014 11:07 AM

As my kids get older and their hobbies and interests become more complex, we have definitely begun to take on too much stuff. I would love to read this and get a refresher course and new ideas in minimizing and simplifying our home and days.

Christine February 21, 2014 10:07 PM

I am on a journey toward continuing simplicity. I would love to explore more about keeping it going with a toddler.

Jessica February 22, 2014 03:09 PM

It’s hard enough for me to keep myself organized but add 3 kids to the mix and I’ve found that it’s harder than ever to claim my own space and teach my kids the importance of a clean space let alone teach the value of material possessions when things are lying all over the house. This book sounds like a good start.

Laura Davidson February 24, 2014 10:18 AM

Fantastic book. Loved interviewing Joshua last month over on my blog. His book and ideas are practical and unique. A must read for all parents and anyone considering the life of less stuff.

Linda Samuels February 24, 2014 10:27 AM

I wasn’t sure there was such a thing as clutter-free with kids!

Jamie Lyon February 24, 2014 11:02 AM

Interested to see how clutter and children are treated in this book.

mari mcccart February 24, 2014 12:52 PM

It sounds awesome!

Marina February 24, 2014 07:16 PM

I find it incredibly hard to declutter. I have been so depressed about it for years and just when I think I have a handle on it (the mind-shift, followed by optimism and a feeling of “let’s jump in and fix this thing!”), I get overwhelmed and give up. This could be the awakening I’ve been looking for. Fingers Crossed x

Wendy February 26, 2014 05:52 AM

This looks very interesting! Sounds like it starts off by convincing you, the reader, of the ideas, and then shows how to work with people who are unconvinced (or, with children, don’t worry about that kind of thing). I’m curious to see how he approaches different people, and it’s great that he talks about all sorts of different stages, age-wise.

Rae February 27, 2014 07:47 AM

This is an ongoing battle in my home. I’m always looking for new ideas aside from the obvious kerosene and matches option.

Lucinda Santiago February 27, 2014 09:06 AM

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Hello! I’m Janine Adams — a certified professional organizer based in St. Louis, and the creator of Peace of Mind Organizing®.

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