Why does decluttering feel so hard?

5 June 2009

When it comes decluttering, which is usually the the first step of getting organized, getting started is often the hardest part.

Emotions play into it, of course. It’s often scary or overwhelming to even think about tackling a big decluttering job. Back in March, I wrote a blog post that contained a poll on the emotional barriers to getting organized. I asked “What emotions get in your way of getting organized?” Of the 69 responses, the largest proportion was “Overwhelm” followed by “Avoidance.”

I’m facing this right now in my life. My husband and I have a big, scary, “Silence of the Lambs”-style basement in our 101-year-old home. In the eight years we’ve been back in this house, we’ve only added stuff to it. There’s been very little subtracting.

I know having an ugly and cluttered basement is probably psychically bag for me. I’m sure it’s terrible feng shui. But it’s not a project I could tackle on my own, since many (though certainly not all) of the things down there were put there by my husband. We talk about cleaning it out and organizing what’s left, but we never get around to doing it, since pretty much any other activity is more attractive.

So we’re doing what I encourage you to do if you’re faced with such a challenge. We’re hiring a professional organizer. Karel Worley, of Clearing Your Path here in St. Louis, is coming over on Thursday and the three of us are spending the day in the basement. I’m actually excited about getting started, primarily because I want it over with.

I’ll report back after Thursday’s basement session. I’m really anxious for the experience of working with an organizer, particularly in tandem with my husband!

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Comments

I tell clients all the time that organizers hire other organizers; we know the value! Thanks for giving me an example I can point them to.

Jeri Dansky June 7, 2009 09:46 PM

You’re welcome! I’ll definitely be posting an update. I can’t believe I’m excited about tackling the basement!

Janine Adams June 8, 2009 10:17 AM

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About Janine

Hello! I’m Janine Adams — a certified professional organizer based in St. Louis, and the creator of Peace of Mind Organizing®.

I love order, harmony + beauty, but I believe that the way that you feel about yourself and your home is what truly matters.

If you’re ready to de­clutter with a purpose and add more ease to your life, you’ve found the right blog — and you’ve found the right company.

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